Eve Marie Mont… Learning Through Our Furry Friends

Our guest today is author Eve Marie Mont.

Her debut novel, Free to a Good Home, is about a young woman who rescues dogs for a living, even though she’s in need of rescue herself. Set in a small New England town over the course of one year, the novel chronicles each month in the life of Noelle Ryan, a veterinary technician searching for a place to call home. When she discovers she cannot have a baby and her husband leaves her, Noelle has only her Great Dane, Zeke, to comfort her. To add insult to injury, Noelle’s ex asks her to act as a caretaker for his elderly mother, who blames Noelle for the breakup. But when a carefree musician named Jasper gives Noelle a second chance at life—and at love—Noelle learns that home is truly where the heart is.

Eve Marie Mont lives with her husband in suburban Philadelphia, where she teaches high school English and creative writing.  She drew inspiration for the novel from her relationship with her own mother-in-law and with her adorable shelter dog, Maggie.

Thanks Eve, for stopping by the Debutante Ball!

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What Our Pets Can Teach Us

In writing Free to a Good Home, I spent a lot of time thinking about what makes the human-animal bond so extraordinary. How do pets seem to know instinctively what we’re feeling and how to make us feel better? Why do they seem to enjoy life so much while the rest of us seem content to lead lives of quiet desperation? What do our pets know that we don’t? Perhaps it is that they still have a sense of innocence and wonder about the world. They are like children who never have to grow up. And when we learn to see life through their eyes, it restores our humanity.  

Our relationships with our pets are among the least complicated and most rewarding of our lives. Pets ask so little of us, yet they give so much. They listen without judgment. They play with us when we need to decompress from life’s human stresses, but they know how to be gentle and still in our moments of sadness and grief. With their soulful eyes, playful paws, and wagging tails, they enter our homes and hearts, leaving our lives changed forever. I cannot imagine a life without pets, just as I cannot imagine a heaven without my dog.

Yes, I am a dog person. That is not to say I don’t like cats because I do. But dogs move me. Dogs like me. To paraphrase Jerry Maguire, dogs complete me. So when my husband and I were first thinking of getting a dog, we decided to adopt so we could repay the favor—complete a dog’s life by providing shelter, food, companionship, and love to a dog in need. Maggie had been discovered on the edge of a farmer’s field, covered with ticks. She’d also been adopted and returned three times before we found her. Thank God the shelter had a no-kill policy, as otherwise, Maggie’s fate might have been three strikes, you’re out. For us, it was love at first sight. Like meeting my husband, finding Maggie seemed like fate.

Since the day we brought Maggie home, she has been an integral part of our lives. She’s experienced all our joys and sorrows right along with us, ready to offer support and love whenever needed. She’s been sick and has had to be rushed to the vet, and she’s comforted us through our own illnesses. Watching a movie just isn’t the same without her sitting between us on the sofa. Sadly, I must confess, she also sleeps with us on the bed. I get an inordinate amount of pleasure watching her roll around on the grass in our backyard or trying to catch water coming out of the garden hose. The sight of Maggie eating bubbles is ridiculously funny.

Sure, she is older now and suffers from arthritis, and her eyes are getting cloudy with age, but she still manages to act like a puppy at least once every day. While we still have her with us, I hope to keep learning from her how to live in the moment, play well with others, embrace life fully, and most of all, how to love unconditionally. Maggie knows that lesson well.

What is the best lesson your pet has taught you?  I’d love to hear your stories.

Regards,

Eve

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15 thoughts on “Eve Marie Mont… Learning Through Our Furry Friends

  1. Aw, I like when pets sleep in the bed 🙂 I have very happy memories of my little white cat Lady getting under the covers around my neck and burrowing all the way down to my feet. I don’t know how she breathed down there, but she often stayed all night!

  2. Such a thoughtful cover – the font matches the dog. Well thought out and tugs the heart. We don’t have any pets. With 3 kids with autism I clean up after enough messes. But I’d love a dog – maybe a service dog. I’m allergic to cats, though I like them. And we have a rat living in our backyard, so I’d really like a good strong HUNGRY cat!

    Good luck with the book. KIM

  3. Our dog has taught me to be kind to everyone. She sleeps on our bed, too, and either fell off or tried to jump off last night and gave us quite a scare. Thank heavens we have an emergency vet in town.

  4. CRYING! Great essay, Eve. You hit the nail. Congrats on your debut, and best of luck with it.

  5. Emily, I really can’t imagine Maggie NOT sleeping on the bed. I think I want her there as much as she wants to be there!

    Kim, I hope you are able to get a service dog. They’re so wonderful! And I’m very sorry about your rat situation!

    Kathy, I hope your dog is okay!

    Alicia, I loved seeing pictures of Stella earlier this week–so thoughtful looking! And thanks for your good wishes on the book. Less than two weeks for you. Are you going out of your mind??

  6. We loved our Springer , Holly. I can picture her catching tennis balls while jumping off the diving board! But then she wanted to eat the neighbor’s children…..

  7. I loved your book, and now I’m loving sweet Maggie! Our lab, Bella, was also returned by two families before we adopted her through Lab rescue. We can’t imagine how anyone could ever give her up!

  8. Love this! My golden retriever taught me to chill out. I was so up-tight about house cleaning prior to her arrival in our life, and those muddy paws did the trick. While I’m still a clean-freak, I take more deep breaths about it. 🙂 xo

  9. Michelle, Thanks for the nice comments!!

    Joelle, Thanks for the warm welcome! I should have sent a picture of Maggie along with my post!

    B., I’ve always thought Springer Spaniels were adorable. I didn’t know about the unfortunate children eating tendencies…

    Sarah P., With Bella and Maggie, it must have been meant to be! Thanks again for reading!

    Sarah J., Yes, dogs seem to have it all figured out, don’t they? Thanks so much for commenting!

  10. Pets truly make the most amazing difference and impact in our lives. I grew up with a crazy boxer named Rocie, who was the love of my childhood. She was also quite tolerant of my constantly putting bandanas, sunglasses, hats, and a myriad of other things on her to take part in the plays my brother and I would perform for our parents. About three years ago I got involved with a wonderful dog rescue here in Miami, Paws4You, that saves dogs from euthanasia and helps rehabilitate and rehome them throughout south Florida. It has been such ana amazing experience to be a part of helping these amazing pups find their forever home and has been my weekly dog-time until I can adopt one of my own. (Hopefully soon!) I’d love to read this book and post a review on my site!

  11. Eve! I just started the book yesterday. I am enjoying every character (except Jolene, b*tch!) and the storyline has me hooked already. Thank you so much! I’ll blog the love this week. Thanks.

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