Editor’s Note: This week is homecoming week on the Debutante Ball as we welcome back the class of 2014. Today we’re catching up with the awesome Lisa Alber (author of wonderful mystery novel KILMOON) who gets extra credit points for managing to write this post in the middle of a crazy time in her life. What’s so crazy? Keep reading to find out.
Happy Friday! So fun to be the Friday Girl again for a week and to read what my fellow Debs have written. Thanks for inviting us, Debs of 2015!
Right now I’m the most crazy, most stressed out I’ve been since the KILMOON launch. It’s funny how things come in a perfect storm. I still have a day job, and that’s been the most nuts it’s ever been. On top of that, since March I’ve been working nearly all my other waking hours to get the next manuscript completed and sent for a May 1st deadline.
Yes, I completed the next County Clare mystery. Woohoo! I struggled with it, to be honest, but I finally got ‘er done.
And, in the midst of all that, I turned into a first-time home buyer! Home-buying in the midst of finishing a manuscript? Bonkers, utterly bonkers.
I had no clue. Seriously. Not. A. Clue. I’m doing it all on my own (patting my own back), so I’ve learned a lot. Closing is May 18th, and I move May 26th. Woohoo!
Check out this blog post I wrote near the beginning of the process, when I was completely terrified. I’m still a little terrified, but OK, I can handle it. Will I become a DIYer? Only the Shadow knows that one. But I will grow tomatoes in my very own garden.
Meanwhile, now I’m contending with this (and bursting into tears every couple of days):
And looking forward to this when the weather warms up. Wee Fawn will love having a fenced-in backyard!
Anything else? A few tidbits:
- KILMOON was nominated for a Rosebud Award for Best First Novel.
- Though the public life of authordom has slowed down — thankfully, because if I could be a hermit author, I would — but I had my first honorarium talk, conference panels, book clubs (one coming up in a few weeks!), and all kinds of author-y event thingies.
- I’m thinking about a trip to Ireland in September for Novel #3 research!
Change is a funny thing, isn’t it? Our Deb 2014 launch year was a doozy, and we had each other. Now, I have my local pals, and the behind-the-scenes supportive emailing continues. I received this note from a friend:
I mean, think of the alternative. You could sit around and make excuses for why you’re not buying a house, not finishing a manuscript, not holding down a job. And you’d be resentful and bitter and, frankly, a pain in the ass. I much prefer you to be temporarily stressed out and crazy feeling for the next few weeks, but stronger and happier in the long run (which is here in a very short time, by the way).
Great perspective! And so right on, too. So even though my breathing goes shallow and my chest aches from stress, this stress is for a good cause: Forward and on!
Wishing you all “forward and on” too. Cheers and best to you, Lisa
Question: What’s your best technique for managing stress?
Thank you, Lisa, for taking the time from a crazy time in your life to check in with us. And for stress relief, I think a few of the 2015 Debs have some cocktail recipes that are just the thing.
Ever distractible, you may find Lisa staring out windows, dog walking, or drinking red wine with her friends. Ireland, books, animals, photography, and blogging round out her distractions. She is the author of KILMOON, the first in the County Clare mystery series, and a recipient of an Elizabeth George Foundation writing grant. KILMOON was nominated for a Rosebud Award for Best First Novel.